Divortex Ceremony

A Sacred Unwinding of Wedding Vows

There are beginnings we celebrate with ceremony—and endings that deserve the same respect. The Divortex Ceremony is a ritual for consciously completing a marriage. It is an unwinding of vows, an honoring of what was, and a graceful release of the bonds that once held a couple together. The term Divortex, coined by Lila Sophia and David Tresemer, invokes the image of a swirling energy, turning counterclockwise to unweave what was once woven. It is not an erasure, but a transformation.

This ceremony acknowledges the truth: that love sometimes changes form. That a marriage may complete its purpose without failure. That releasing each other formally, with intention can be an act of integrity, growth, and deep respect.

Circe offers custom-crafted Divortex ceremonies for couples who wish to:

Dissolve the spiritual or energetic bond of their wedding vows

Acknowledge and bless the chapter of life they shared

Release each other with clarity, care, and dignity

Invite forgiveness, reflection, and new beginnings

Offer closure to the community of friends and family who witnessed their union

This ritual may include:

Lighting and extinguishing a candle representing the original wedding vows

Spoken reflections and gratitude for the shared life

Guided release and forgiveness statements

Acknowledgment and release of witnesses from the role of marital support

Blessings for the next chapter

Optional inclusion of new partners or children, if appropriate

The tone of the Divortex ceremony is not bitter or dramatic. It is spacious, mature, even joyful. It recognizes that growth, change, and completion are sacred movements in the human story. The ceremony can be held in-person or virtually, with or without guests, with both partners present, or perhaps only one partner in attendance. Whether your marriage lasted three years or thirty, whether it ended peacefully or with complexity, a Divortex offers a conscious, compassionate way to step forward, with more clarity.

Want to explore a Divortex ceremony for yourself or someone you know?

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